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Feelings which are actually "unrequited" are more commonly caused when one person has STRONG connections to a personal planet (often Venus), while the other person has NO or very few connections to the same planet. So if person A has strong connections to the other's Venus (relationships) and person B doesn't, then person A feels a strong relationship with person B...and person B may not know person A exists!

In synastry everything is from the point of view of the "house person". So, with that simpler way to see things, let's go to your example.

Planet person's Venus (relationships) falls in House person's 5th house (self-expression_r_r, also dating). House person feels the Planet person wants to date them. Planet person's Venus falls in their own 5th house so they naturally use their Venus in a "dating" way. So in this example the house focus for both people are the same and there is no possible confusion about "relationships"...BOTH think of them as "dating".

Planet person's Venus falls in House person's 1rst house (being, also action). House person feels Planet person wants to be actively in a relationship. Planet person's Venus falls in their own 1rst house so they naturally use their own Venus in an "active" way. So in this example the house focus for both people are the same and there is no possible confusion about "relationships"...BOTH think of them as "active".

In this example, each person understands the relationship energy of the OTHER person correctly: an interest in dating relationships is an interest in dating relationships, and an interest in active relationships is an interest in active relationships.

Your next example is simpler. Planet person's Mars (being, also action, anger) falls in House person's 7th house (relationships). So each person thinks the OTHER person is interested in being active in relationships. What is missing is where Mars is in each person's charts. If either person's Mars is anyplace other than the 7th house, then misunderstandings can occur between what one person feels a person is doing (Mars) in the relationship and what another person is actually doing.

Jupiter conjunct north node:
木星合北交点
The Jupiter person makes it easier for the Node person to grow and expand their horizons; the Node person brings out the best in the Jupiter person's attitude, usually drawing out the philosopher or teacher in the person.
木星人将帮助北交点人成长,拓宽其视野.而交点人可以以木星人为师,木星人也会给于耐心的指导.

neptune conjunct south node:
海王星合南交点
The Neptune person makes it difficult for the person to get out of any rut they are in by confusing the issue, so positive aspects from other planets are necessary to avoid stagnation; the Node person can bring out some of the lower side of the other person's Neptune qualities, such as causing them to fantasize more, or live more in a dream world, or seek escapism.
海王星人容易使南交点人迷失方向,而交点人会引出对方的不良的海王星的特质,如过度的梦幻,或者逃避现实.

eros conjunct south node:
爱罗斯合南交点
This can be an aspect where there is some unhealthy lust coloring the relationship, which can (if the rest of chart backs this up), keep the relationship from growing on healthy terms.
有了这个相位,则二人之间可能有某种不健康的带有爱欲色彩的关系.

juno conjunct mars:
婚神星合火星
This in part depends on the sexes of the individuals. If the Juno person is a female and the Mars a male, there will be attraction, but the Juno person may feel an undercurrent need to continually assert her rights in the relationship, which can cause friction; while if the Juno person is the male, he may feel he is attracted to a potential mate, and have a strong desire for her attention, but get a bit overwhelmed at times with her assertiveness.
这一相位要根据性别来判断.如果婚神星人是女性,火星人为男性,二人之间的吸引力很强,但是如果婚神星人想要在关系中掌控,可能会导致争吵和磨擦.如果婚神星人是男性,那么就会认为对方符合自己心目中配偶的形象,并且不由自主的被吸引,想要引起对方的注意,但是有时候会被对方的那种过强的主张所压制.

chiron oppose psyche:
凯龙冲智神星
This is usually a case where the couple's finding each other is to help heal them both from wounds. The Chiron person has long-standing wounds, perhaps going back to childhood, while the Psyche person is hurting deeply from a past relationship. It can at times be painful as they both may have to relive the past to heal, but the healing also strengthens the relationship.

chiron trine psyche:
凯龙星拱智神星
This is similar to the previous aspect, except that the healing takes place more easily, and is more incidental to the relationship. This is not a strong enough aspect to bring the people together in the first place.

eros trine psyche:
爱神星拱智神星
In mythology, eros and psyche finding each other is a metaphor for the soul (psyche) finding what it desires most (eros). This is a minor aspect, showing that there is some harmony where the couple fulfills each others' desires. But again, it is not a strong enough aspect to draw the people together in the first place.

eros trine neptune:
爱神星拱海王星
There is a slight quality to the relationship of it being something more, something almost spiritual. Definitely a minor aspect, but could give the couple a feeling that they knew each other before they even met in this life.

eros trine pluto:
爱神星拱冥王星
If there are other aspects showing attraction between the couple, this
can intensify the mutual desires. If not, then it just shows some minor desires that may never be acted upon.

eros sextile psyche:
Basically like eros trine psyche, except that they each must put a little effort into fulfilling the desires of the other, rather than it just happening naturally.

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